Where's the Elbow Room?

Dear Sky Steward,

In coach (shudder at the thought), does either passenger have proprietary rights over the arm rest that divides two seats? I recall writing to you previously about this and you told me that you were always very sensitive to this issue with others, but what about others who have no sensitivity to the issue at all? Is it a shared facility (first come, first served?) or is there some code (such as) you get to claim the one on your right?

Signed,
Crowded in Coach

Dear Crowded,

The Sky Steward's first thought about armrests is that passengers must have an understanding that armrests are for their ‘occasional’ use when another passenger is seated in the adjacent seat. Fortunately, in cases when a passenger is seated in an aisle or window seat, they have an armrest to themselves with only the other being shared with a neighbor. As a courtesy, in a row with 3 seats, the passenger in the center should be given use of both armrests as much as possible.

The Sky Steward's suggests travelers position themselves in a way to not use the armrests very often (they are very hard and uncomfortable anyway) since there are better ways to find comfort.

Here are the best ways to avoid using the armrest AND be discover more comfort:
1. Put the tray table down and rest forearms on tray table (surprisingly comfortable)
2. Use a blanket, pillow, or jacket to cushion elbows as they press against the inside of the armrest, just below the top ‘resting’ surface. This is not only easier on the elbows, it is kind gesture towards the neighboring passenger.

The Sky Steward sends his wishes for pleasant travel and first class upgrades!